Hand-tied velvet blue bows adorn this Christmas Tree in Richmond, Virginia. Photography by Alison Gootee
Thanksgiving may be in the rear view mirror, but I like to keep the spirit of gratitude going as we move full speed ahead into the most magical time of the year. I love the holidays because they offer the opportunity to transform everyday spaces and celebrate, regardless of your beliefs!
With the holiday hustle and bustle ramping up, I’m looking forward to squeezing in as many of my favorite traditions as possible before the year ends. These beloved events and activities actually force me to slow down and to pay extra attention to the things and people that are important to me. My time with family and with friends means the world to me, and my favorite traditions include hefty servings of both!
This milk punch recipe is always a crowd pleaser! Photography by Alison Gootee
One long standing tradition is a dinner party for friends that my husband and I throw. Some years, we even ask people to dress in costume to get into the festive spirit. One non-negotiable: a series of questions that get answered and submitted anonymously. As part of the evening’s fun, we try to figure out who said what. It’s a fun way to break the ice and learn new and occasionally surprising things about old friends.
As for food, I often prepare a smoked turkey gumbo, a nod to my husband’s New Orleans roots, as an appetizer. Every year I make a bunch of milk punch with a recipe handed down from my husband’s uncle–it’s always a crowd pleaser! Dinner itself can vary year to year (and on especially busy years, we rely on a caterer to make our holiday load a little lighter). For dessert, one of my favorites is a coconut cake, but the offerings vary year to year. What never changes is the rejuvenating and comforting experience of laughing and being together with friends.
Unsurprisingly, decorating the table is another favorite holiday tradition. I love to change the theme yearly to stave off monotony. One year I used woodland animals and wintery blue accents for inspiration; another I leaned into crisp peppermint colors, and last year, a Scrooge-themed table (complete with gold “coins” as table decorations). This year, I was captivated by the Nutcracker and inspired by Sugar Plum Fairy-eque pinks and whites. Be sure to watch my Homeworthy episode, “Inside a Willliamsburg-Style Home Decked with Nutcracker Decor” for the full tour!
A Victorian card ribbon over the mantle. Photography by Alison Gootee
A holiday decorating idea that I reuse year after year is a Victorian card ribbon over the mantle. I originally spied a ribbon festooned with cards and displayed over a chest at Major Dooley’s home, Maymont, and I adapted the idea for my own home. I love how my fireplace is framed every year with photos of the people I care about so I can see their faces while relaxing after holiday prep and activities.
Another much anticipated holiday ritual is making cinnamon buns for friends and family. I deliver these sweet treats right before Christmas so that they can enjoy an easy and delicious breakfast once the present unwrapping frenzy is over. Of course, we make sure to save some for our family as well!
A winter wonderland theme is continued in the smallest details from icy blue wrapping paper and matching ribbon. Photography by Alison Gootee
